The best advice I have ever received

Key element: The skin tone, body shape, voice, way of thinking, style of doing work and many more, somewhere you are unique from others, this tells, you are already Special and only one piece like you in this universe, so do not compare yourself with others, YOU ARE HERE FOR THAT ROLE WHICH CAN’T BE PLAYED BY ANYONE ELSE!

Right from the beginning of our lives we all compare ourselves to others; and well as they compare us to some others, this cycle goes on from the initial stage of our lives. When we are comparing ourselves to others it’s like we are comparing their best features with ours. It’s like being right handed and trying to right with left. I would say if I had to guess human beings have been comparing themselves to one another since the beginning of time.

Comparison has really been fleeting experience for me. I started comparing myself to others: why I am not beautiful, why I am like this! Why I don’t have fair skin! And the list goes on…… I screwed my head by thinking this all day l0ng. I used to feel like they were everything I was not or I could say; everything I thought I was not. This comparison demotivated me lot it resulted in overthinking and lack of confidence in me; somehow I managed to get out of this. But you might have question how? ‘Advice’ …yes you heard it right. I was so much hyped into it that somewhere it started affecting me I became frustrated, my performance in all the aspects was going down, my grades were decreasing and this things my mother could observe clearly, she was noticing everything and one day she just ask me that what is bothering me so much: to this I just spoke my heart out to her and she said Beta, listen, we all are unique , god has made us all beautiful, we all have our different presence , we are everything we feel we should be . the only thing is what we need to change is our mind set and way of thinking , we should think positively and keep saying it to ourselves that I am beautiful, you are beautiful , I will surely get whatever I want, I am nothing less! And we need to put ourselves first. This one advice which I call as ‘words of wisdom’ that changed my life. I had to learn this as it was much needed. In the long run I started talking with myself, telling me that I am nothing less. I am just like others: this helped in gaining my confidence back. I started feeling better. I have taken this advice to my heart and it really worked wonders for me ; listen if somebody gives you advice( Free Ki to Hai 😉 ) it can lead us to life changing paths as we somehow manage to receive the privilege of life changing advices.